I noticed today how much we are growing together as a couple.I think all couples have certain obstacle's they have to overcome, sadly some relationships never get to overcome them, but I see us pushing through all of our problems effortlessly. Of course we have had some dissagreements, I mean he is very stubborn and I guess I am a little too =)(ok maybe a lot), but it never seems to bring us down. To me, your ability to handle a disagreement together makes or breaks your relationship. I know we have not been together for a long time, but I think this is something that you find out early on and I'm so glad were passing!
Something else that I've noticed is that we actually have goals together. I'm not the kind of person that can go thru life with no goals. I need to know that there's better out there for me, that I have a purpose. I have goals for everything from my career, to marriage, to children, and even into old age. That is what gets me out of bed each morning. I have to date someone that is equally goal oriented, or atleast wants more for themselves besides working at a low end company for the rest of their life (sorry to all Mc D's managers). So when we were able to make significant goals together (besides going to the movies friday night) it just made me realize, I can see myself with this man for a long time. I feel like we can equally lean on each other, turn to each other in times of need, and get each other through thick and thin to get what we want together.
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