Sometimes movie nights are my favorite! I have to admit, I am one of those people that get so tied up in sitcoms, and I could watch movies all day long. So going out with my sweetheart and sharing a movie together (and personal commentary) is a blast for me. The movie we watched was The Hangover, and it was pretty funny but I wouldn't suggest children watching it. Sometimes movies have an impact on me because I can see part of myself in the characters that I either like or don't like. So in the movie the "Dr's" girlfriend is a complete b****! While on the other hand the woman getting married was so understanding and laid back, and I realized that I want to be more like that! I heard on the radio about a couple, I believe the longest marriage in the United States, that has been married for 80 years! Wow, so how did they keep things so great for so long? When the woman commented she said something close to " We still cuddle, we don't fight, a good marriage take a lot of understanding and forgiveness, you should always laugh together and talk together, and don't forget to have a little bit of exercise." It really touched me, what she said, and I'm probably not doing it any justice. It made me stop and think that even though you have that good connection, and I mean that really great once-in-a-lifetime love connection, you still have to put some work into it to keep it great. When the man responded to the question of how they were able to keep things great for so long he simply responded "she never gets mad at me." So I'm going to try this, God be with me. I'm going to try to go with out getting mad at Miguel for things, and I believe I can do it if I remind myself of the bigger picture. We'll see!
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